Anonymous asked: I'm curious about the way you guys respond when people preface their questions with gushing compliments about your music. There doesn't appear to be much care/appreciation. I've noticed from a good amount of bands, that they don't know how to take compliments well and clam up attributed to shyness and the like, but genuinely still appreciate it. These experiences are from meeting people in person, so I'm wondering if that holds true with you guys since it's quite hard to tell over the internet.
Well we certainly do care. At the same time though, sometimes it feels like the compliments are unwarranted. It’s impossible to look at your own work objectively… and easy to be self-critical. Besides which, people whose lives have been deeply affected by something can’t look at it objectively either (nor should they need to).
So yeah, who knows how to respond to seemingly undeserved favor? Grace takes a long time to learn. I’m not old enough to grasp it yet. Doesn’t mean that affirmation isn’t appreciated; it is… but this is a question box on the internet, and that can be awkward for communicating heavy things.
On a related note, everyone in the band is introverted, so that might explain some of it. If our band had its own personality, it would be INTJ.